MY FATHER WHO ARE IN HEAVEN
Would you like to take your intuition to the next level but don’t consider yourself psychic?
I know what it feels like. This was me a few years ago. Unlike clairvoyants and clairaudients (people who see spirit and people who hear spirit), I can neither see nor hear spirit. And this makes me more like the vast majority of people on this planet. However, we are all intuitive. We were born this way. And using our intuition in our business is one of the most useful thing we can do, especially in the current economic climate.
I have developed my own way of teaching intuition to my clients one to one. I do not teach classes because I know that we are each different. In fact, one of my VIPs was a woman who had signed up for a group programme with a medium, she already did readings professionally but felt she wanted that one to one VIP support to take her work to the next level. She wasn’t disappointed.
Now you might wonder how this has to do with my memoir called My Father Who Art In Heaven. Bear with me. I am getting to it.
In December 2008, on the day I completed my reiki master training, my father was diagnosed with a brain tumour. Although I could not see it at the time, this was going to be my biggest learning curve as a healer and a psychic. A month later I trained with the very prestigious Penny Brohn Cancer Care in Bristol (where I live) to help ME deal with the journey my father had embarked on. I knew from the moment he was diagnosed that this was the illness he chose to go back to the creator. Fast forward five years, and his non cancerous tumour took a turn for the worse. I cancelled my plans to visit him with my husband and two young children and decided to go visit him alone so I could spend quality time with him alone before he died. This is where my memoir starts. In November 2013. Four months later, he was dead. In these four months, I worked on healing my relationship with my dad. We had been estranged for twenty three years after a nervous breakdown he had which then led to my mother not allowing us to spend any time alone together. We had so much catching up to do. Sadly, his tumour affected his speech and balance, so by the time I could have time alone, he could no longer speak. I had no idea if the beliefs in non physical life and reincarnation would hold water on this journey. Was it going to bring me some peace in this painful process? I approached the whole journey with an open heart and an open mind, setting aside my beliefs to be there for my father the way he wanted me to be. We continued the conversation after he died and what he showed me was mind blowing.
I need to say that my intuition saved the day. For the first time in his life, my father welcomed my psychic gifts because I was the only one who knew what he wanted. He had made no care plan and had not expressed any wishes because he refused to talk about death. And then when his brain tumour started to affect his speech, he was no longer able to say what he wanted. But I knew. The other extraordinary thing that happened is that my intuition showed me exactly what to do to help his transition in terms of energy. I did a ritual on his hospital bed a week before he died that enabled him to exit his body smootly and easily. He even said to me, through a medium a couple of months ago (at the time of writing this page – Feb 2020) that from that moment, it was like a guardian angel was above him and guiding him into the light. He lost his fear of death and thanked me for being a big part in this.
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My Father Who Art In Heaven is not an ordinary memoir
My Father Who Art in Heaven is not a morbid book. It is a story of love, magic and forgiveness. It will help the reader transform her vision of the world in three ways. First, it will show her that it is never too late to make peace with her father. No matter what happened to him (absent, dead, distant… ). Second, it will evidence that the Universe always has our back and show her that magic is everywhere we look if only we look for it, even in the death of a loved one. Third, it will explore the power of healing and forgiveness in a practical and grounded way.
It is structured in three parts (thank you Shakespeare):
- Your father is going to die
- Your father is dead
- Your father never die
Here is what one of the readers of my memoir said about it after reading only three chapters: “The descriptions of Paris – the park where you walked him, and the morning run are both wonderful. your writing is so alive with smells, and delicious details of the differences in style between your mum and dad. It was fun to visit their apartment, at the same time, deeply touching to feel your emotions and welling grief. When you arrive home, to your family, the kids embrace is such a relief after the enormity of your visit. Brilliant writing. Can we read the rest?”
It wil make you cry, laugh and want to hug a stranger in the street. My Father Who Art in Heaven is now available as a paperback on lulu. Click on the link below to purchase it.
“I have been reading My Father who Art In Heaven and I cannot get enough! Last night I struggled to put it down to go to sleep it is so captivating. It is the perfect mix of raw and feel emotion and experience along with a fantastically real and informative magical side I feel is missing from alot of literature. A definite must read!” – Sara Selene
“Ange has a way with words that as her story unfolds it captivates the reader who then becomes entangled in the emotions, the story and engages all who read her beautiful story. This personal story about the relationship of a father and a daughter until the end of life is a must read for everyone.” – Joy Fairhall, Grief coach
“The two aspects that I appreciated the most about Ange’s memoir are first, the confirmation of what the dying process is like, which is something that I was keen to read about due to my Western conditioning around fear, and second an honest account of what it can be like to open your intuitive gifts when you are not clairvoyant or clairaudient.
It was also really interesting to see how you were guided all along but only realised that you were sometimes months after the events. This is very comforting as it evidences that the spirit world is always helping behind the scenes. There are no coincidences.
The biggest take away was the idea that everything is unfolding perfectly and that we need to trust the intelligence of the Universe. The most surprising aspect, even though it was a confirmation, was how your Dad contacted you psychically long before he died. All along you keep a healthy skepticism about it all which makes it more credible.” Stephanie Kakris, Law of Attraction and Manifesting Mentor
As Chantal is going through a similar journey to mine with her mother who is going through dementia, she has appreciated the moral support that my memoir has given her and the confirmation that she is not making everything up. It has helped her see that approaching this journey with her mother is about being there for her in the way that her mother needs rather than in the way she wants things to unfold.
This has turned this journey into a beautiful opportunity to be in the present moment. Chantal, like me, is grateful that she has tools such as meditation and journaling to help her through the roller coaster of emotions that this is taking her on and urges us to learn these techniques NOW before the crisis hits, so that we are equipped to navigate these difficult times with grace. Chantal Vanderhaeghen is a mindfulness and intuitive coach. You can find her on Facebook at Unfold your Freedom.
Naomi Sturrock-Whitehead was drawn to my memoir because of its title and the fact that her father was in heaven and she felt she still had unresolved issues with him.
Naomi and I discussed how she committed to do work on herself so that her children would not suffer abuse at her hands but in her words, she abused herself and wondered if this was really better for her kids. Like me, Naomi has had a strained relationship with her mother and my memoir has also invited her to deepen her capacity with her mother too. In this interview, Naomi and I talked about forgiveness, growth, karma, what we choose before we incarnate on this earth plane and much more. You can find Naomi on Facebook here and sign up for her newsletter here and receive a free fifteen minute tarot reading.
Joy Fairhall was one of the early adopters of my memoir during my crowdfunding campaign in 2016. Joy is a grief expert, who has herself experienced the loss of her husband when her children were young.
Her take on my memoir is particularly interesting due to her wealth of expertise on the subject. She often lends her copy of my memoir to her clients whom she feels will be open to what I have to say about life after death.
In this interview, we discuss what we can do when facing loss and grief to pull us through the dark tunnel of our emotions. You can find Joy on her Facebook page Mind Body Joy.
My memoir rests on the philosophy that everything is energy and there is no death
I was able to write it thanks to ten years of therapy on myself followed by over fifteen years of self development and training as a reiki master, clinical hypnotherapist and psychotherapist, emotional freedom technique therapist and a psychic. I am thrilled to have been able to evidence that these tools can be used effectively to deal with life as it comes, with no spiritual bypassing.